They say: "This too shall pass."

I think they lie.

Right to my face.

I'd like to know what the hell I'm dealing with from the start.

YOU are ineligible for this because YOU should have known what was never told to you. YOU should have figured it out, and disclosed it. Since YOU haven't, this judgement is against YOU. Our condolences are sincere, as sincere as YOUR omissions.

I just want a voice for the pain. That is all that I'm asking.